My self-summary

I’m grounded and centered. I'm loved, lovable, loving, caring and kind. I'm anything but your average guy. I’m fun, outgoing, intelligent, passionate and open-minded. I love trying and introducing people to new things.

My ideal relationship has us growing together, expanding our souls, and bringing new ideas & thoughts into each other’s lives. Honesty is paramount, soulful conversation is sexy and openness leads to intimacy.

I'm easy to be around, have nice teeth and dress as well as someone with no fashion sense what so ever can. I cherish my family & friends, return lost wallets. I sometimes race motocross, play hockey and ride mountain bikes.

I love kids and already have proven to be a great dad, love the water. I'm an avid hiker and often head up to NH. I have a warm spot in my heart for Falmouth Heights.

I keep my spirit, mind & body in good shape, eating well and staying active. I’m not into judgment and I gravitate towards open minds and progressive ideas. I care about the environment, progressive issues, and have a need to explore the world around me.

There is nothing better than interesting & honest conversation over a good dinner, or during a fun road trip. Let’s skip the Cheese Cake Factory and eat somewhere original or adventurous. Chains are boring and I basically steer away from anything in life that is run-of-the-mill.

I’m looking for my best friend, a woman that I look forward to being with, makes me smile from the other side of the room and wants to build something great together. A woman with a big heart, with depth, one who can open up & share all that there is about herself, both the good and not so good. She is fun, smart, independent, conversant on many subjects, cares about the world around her, down to earth, spiritual & open minded, sensual, present, has a love for life and a passion to live it to the fullest. Someone I can connect with on many levels and have great conversations, both mindful and frivolous.

I'm a Progressive, Green, Libertarian(when it comes to the rich and powerful), I would not support any cuts to the poor. I would like an end to corporate welfare, financial institution welfare and military proliferation. Caveat Emptor when it comes to stocks, bonds and derivatives. No more bailouts, low interest loans and policy manipulation for the (Corporation, Banking, Federal Reserve Axis). Let's do something else with the $700 (edit, make that $753) Billion a year in the defense budget and go to single payer healthcare.

Lastly...
1. Emotionally available, honest.
2. Trustworthy, for good reason.
3. Compassionate and know the value of non-judgment and caring.
4. Feeling that great connection and intimacy on many levels (physical, spiritual, emotional and intellectual) is essential and is built through honest conversation and soulful revelations.
5. Very open, which leads to a lot of bonding and a lot of humor.

ASPIRATIONS
What I'm doing with my life
Trying to rise above thought and co-create with others.

TALENT
I'm really good at
1. Writing Software
2. Swerving to avoid animals
3. Mountain Biking
4. Motocross
5. Listening
6. Lists
7. Recycling

MY TRAITS
My golden rule
If you don't have anything good to think then don't think anything at all.

NEEDS
Six things I could never do without
I could do without all these but Love, I enjoy the rest.
Love
Books
The Great Outdoors
House on the water
Spiritual Connection
Mountain Biking

HOBBIES
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Software, The Economy, Finance, War and Peace.

MOMENTS
A perfect day
A day at the beach, take in the sunset, yada yada yada.

SECRETS
The most private thing I'm willing to admit
I'm an open book. We'll have continuous laughs over the outrageous things I admit to on a daily basis.

DATING
What I'm actually looking for
I’m looking for someone that understands they are powerful beyond measure, someone who doesn't play small, someone who serves the world. Am I asking too much? :-)

MUSIC
Thompson Twins - If You Were Here
Madonna - Ray Of Light
The Vines - Ride
Howard Jones - Like To Get To Know You Well
Social Distortion - I Was Wrong

FAVORITE MUSICIANS
Smiths, Hives, Madonna, Pearl Jam, The Vines, The Dandy Warhols, Bid Data, Stone Roses, Skip James, Love and Rockets, Pixies, Billie Holiday, Social Distortion, Green Day, Sisters Of Mercy, NIN, Foo Fighters, The Charlatans, Sneaker Pimps